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Friday, April 28, 2023
You're never too old to feel inspired and alive (and more)
"You're so hard on yourself. But remember, everybody has a chapter they don't read out loud. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life; at the mistakes that gave you wisdom, at the suffering that gave you strength. Despite everything, you still move forward, be proud of this. Continue to endure. Continue to persevere. And remember, no matter how dark it gets, the sun will rise again." ~Unknown
All my life I knew I was different. If I didn't look so much like my mom, I would have believed the jokes my brother told me about how I was adopted. I just couldn't relate to everyone else in my family—or the rest of my world.
"There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn't." ~John Green
I remember being fifteen. I was a high school freshman who loved drawing, books, Harry Potter, and Taylor Swift. I hated math class with a passion. I had a loving family and a small white dog named Maddie. I wanted to be a writer, and to have a boyfriend. I also wanted to die.
It started in seventh grade, when my best friend, Meghan, dumped me. You hear about romantic breakups all the time, but no one seems to talk about friendship breakups. They hurt a lot. This person who you thought would be by your side in life suddenly isn't.
"I do not want to get to the end of my life and find that I just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~Diane Ackerman
I'm in the business of watching people take risks. I observe them tackling challenges, fear, and discomfort, and sometimes, "making firsts" in their life.
I observe a lot as a flight attendant, and sometimes wonder if my official title should rather be "Human Observer," or "Social Experimenter." It feels more accurate, or at least it's the part that I typically enjoy the most. I'm also what's called a "Death Doula" and hospice volunteer, both of which I consider to be more of a passion rather than a kind of "job" or "position."
"We're all just walking each other home." ~Ram Dass
Living in the hyper-individualist society that we do, it's easy to forget our obligation to those around us. Often in the West, we are taught to prioritize ourselves in the unhealthiest ways, to 'grind' as hard as we can to achieve wealth and status.
We are taught, between the lines, that our first responsibility is to create a 'perfected' version of ourselves to such an extreme that it is alright to forsake our relationships with others to accomplish it.
From day one, it is embedded in us that it is our individual selves against the world. Like many others, I'd like to challenge this notion. Because what is the purpose of wealth and status if not to share it with the ones you love and who love you the most?
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