What advice, or message, do you have for women who are afraid of aging? A message I have for women who are afraid of aging is… don't be. I mean, truthfully, it's as simple as that! We're afraid of things that we don't know about, but the more information you get for yourself, the better you will go into aging. Everybody ages; it's how you take that information and make it work for yourself and your own health…there's nothing to be afraid of. It's actually really fucking liberating, I have to say. So, you just have to lean in towards that messaging. How do you encourage women to spark joy or pivot during hard times? For me, it's basically about quieting your mind and remembering why you are in that space in the first place—giving yourself the time to take a breath, take a moment and appreciate and be grateful for where you are and how far you have come. We definitely have to work harder when we get older, which has been the biggest surprise for me, but the payoff is that much more rewarding, because what we are working on is something we're so passionate about, versus something that we were told we had to do earlier in life. So, I would just say that every day is a new day and a new opportunity to feel better. What are you most passionate about right now? Well, I'm definitely most passionate about getting out the stories of what it means to be in midlife and what life is after menopause, because we are so much more than menopause. And midlife is a word that I don't think people really understand until they're in it. So my passion is about making sure that women are prepared when they get here, so it isn't such a shock. And also to make sure that women's stories at this time in their life are much broader and much greater, because we don't have them. That's why we're all here going, “I'm sorry. Why did nobody talk to me about any of this?” So, that's what we want to do. We want to get people talking about all of this. How do you find flow—that moment, or ability, to be fully immersed and present in the moment—in your life? I find flow in my daily life at the end of the day, I have to say. Once I have done all the things that I've set out to do, I can just be excited about the things I accomplished and I did—and I know that I have tomorrow to finish the things that I didn't do. But there's definitely my point in the evening where I just get to appreciate everything I did and the people I talked to and who I met and the stories I shared and then go to sleep with a very content mind. I think that's probably when I have my best flow… or listening to a really good song in my car while I'm driving. That's also definitely where I get my flow. I mean, right now, I'm gonna say [my favorite car song is] Florence + The Machine’s “Dog Days Are Over,” because I don't care where I am, when I hear that song my mind… the lyrics are so fucking good, and it feels like midlife; it feels like we're moving from dogs to horses. Like, we are fucking moving on to a stronger animal and a stronger story. And that, to me, is just like, yeah, those were those times, and these are these times. And these times are so much more meaningful and significant, and we've got to share it. So, I definitely get my flow from that too. |